I Belong To God

In this article, I want to address a topic that may be difficult for some of you to hear. It's about the importance of honoring God with our bodies and understanding that our bodies are not our own, but rather, they belong to God. This concept is especially relevant when it comes to the area of sexuality.

Understanding the Depth of Intimacy

When we engage in sexual activity, something profound happens at the deepest level of our being. Psychology tells us that the release of endorphins and hormones during orgasms actually imprints that moment into our brains. This is why it can be so difficult to separate ourselves emotionally from past sexual experiences.

God designed us this way because He desires intimacy in a very special way between us and our spouse. In 1 Corinthians 6:16, the apostle Paul references Genesis chapter 2, where it says, "The two shall become one flesh." Paul emphasizes that this union is not just physical, but also spiritual. He urges believers to unite themselves with the Lord and follow His ways, rather than indulging in sexual immorality.

Flee from Sexual Sin

Paul goes on to give practical advice on how to navigate the temptation of sexual sin. He acknowledges that it may not always be easy to resist these desires, but he encourages believers to make choices based on God's truth rather than their feelings. He specifically mentions fleeing from sexual immorality and avoiding any sexual activity outside the bounds of marriage between one man and one woman.

The Significance of the Body

Paul reminds the Corinthians that their bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, which they have received from God. This means that our bodies are not our own, but rather, they belong to God. We have been bought with a price, the sacrifice of Jesus on the cross. Therefore, we are called to honor God with our bodies.

Addressing Past Mistakes

As a pastor, I have had the privilege of walking alongside many individuals who have struggled with sexual sin. I understand the shame and pain that can come from past mistakes. I want to apologize to those who have experienced hurt and trauma in this area. I am truly sorry for what you have been through.

God's Forgiveness and Cleansing

The good news is that God offers forgiveness and cleansing to all who come to Him. He doesn't just forgive us, but He also cleanses us and makes us new. He can restore our hearts and make us whole again. When we repent and turn to God, He remembers our sins no more.

Three Possible Responses

In light of this truth, I want to present three possible responses to the message of honoring God with our bodies:

• Defensive: Some may choose to be defensive and reject the idea that they need to change. They may disagree with God's Word and choose to go their own way. My response to those who choose this path is that I respect their decision, but I also encourage them to consider the consequences of their choices. If they find that their way is not working out for them, I am always here to offer support and guidance.
  
• Remorseful: Others may acknowledge their mistakes and feel deep shame and regret. They may struggle with the weight of their past actions. I want to assure them that God does not condemn them. He understands their struggles and offers forgiveness and a way out. It is important to remember that conviction leads to repentance and restoration, not condemnation.
• Repentant: The third response, which I recommend for all of us, is to be repentant. Repentance is not a one-time event but a daily choice to turn towards God and His ways. It is a commitment to live according to His standards and allow Him to transform our lives. Repentance is not restrictive; it is restful. It brings peace and freedom.

Choosing God's Way

God's way is not just right; it is better. It may go against the cultural norms and popular opinions, but it leads to true fulfillment and joy. When we stand at a crossroad and are unsure of what to do, we should seek the ancient paths and walk in them. God's ways are unchanging and trustworthy. They lead to rest for our souls.

Conclusion

In conclusion, our bodies do not belong to us; they belong to God. We are called to honor Him with our bodies, including our sexuality. If you have made mistakes in the past, know that God offers forgiveness, cleansing, and restoration. He wants to make you new and set you free. Choose to follow His ways and experience the rest and fulfillment that He offers.

Let us pray together, acknowledging our need for God's forgiveness and committing ourselves to live according to His will.